Ugh… where do I begin? WWEEELLLLL…. A few weeks ago, I’d promised a post once we were up and running in the new place. It was a honest “goal”, but obviously one that got swept away in the rapids that are moving your life into an active renovation site. This is probably going to be the first of a bunch of smaller posts, to try to break things up for me as writing 3000 words on what’s happened since Nov. 20 doesn’t sound like much fun. Also, at the time this is posted, it’ll already be out of date since I’m writing from Millington, TN while Lauren’s getting a bunch of work done and supervising a bunch of furniture deliveries.
So…. What had happened was…..
We spent 11/20-11/26 in NJ celebrating the baptism of our amazing nephew. Since we were up in NJ for Thanksgiving, we decided to just spend the week there and work remotely, which meant we got to hang out with a lot of my family, which is always nice. However, this isn’t a life blog, this is a home renovation blog, so, we’ll skip out on most of those details. While we were having a blast in NJ, we were trying not to stress about the upcoming move, on top of the bushel of small renovations yet to be completed in the new place. It didn’t go that well for us, as most of our free time we were worrying about everything that still had to happen.
As a short aside, this year marked the first time since Lauren and I have spent Thanksgiving together that we didn’t do any in-store Black Friday shopping (I got a sound bar for the new basement TV online, and she got some stuff from Lowes online). Here’s a picture of it all set-up, with Jumanji in, it’s beautiful!
Jumanji coming through crystal clear despite an average camera and the protective coating still on the screen.
It would have been really refreshing and relaxing if it wasn’t because we were loading up a U-Haul in NJ instead. Some of you may know that my Mom up and sold our house to move to CA (now back on the East Coast) a few years ago. For anyone whose parents still live in their childhood home, get ready, because your childhood ‘stuff’ takes up a lot of room when you eventually have to move it into your house. Since I couldn’t fit an attic worth of stuff in the small apartments I’ve had since living in DC, I’ve had it sitting in storage since she moved. So on Black Friday, we loaded my stuff in the storage unit into a U-Haul, (big thanks to my little brother Mike for the help!) and hit the road for Old Virginia.
When we finally got down to the new place, we were thrilled to find some progress had been made on renovations, but, unfortunately, not enough to mean that the house would be totally move-in-ready the following day. Here’s a picture of the basement half-bath with tile, vanity and toilet!
The kitchen also came together really nicely, and was ready for use. The island was finally hooked up to electric, and the wine fridge was fully operational.
On top of that, we still had several hours’ worth of packing to do at the apartment. Black Friday sucked (not as bad as it sucked to be a retail employee or someone in emergency services though, so, consider my privilege checked).
Somehow, we scrambled to get everything relatively packed and organized by the time the movers showed up the following morning. I have to say this, as a big guy who’s accustomed to being the person who gets asked to do a lot of moves for friends, and has always moved himself (with the help of some friends), movers were a game changer. I felt like a lazy sack the whole time, but in a good way. They made what would have been an absolutely tremendously miserable day into a mildly annoying and tiring one. But, lest you stop sympathizing with me, we still had the U-Haul to unload.
Since, like lunatics, we decided on the weekend after Thanksgiving to move, most people we knew were out of town, so we had to rely on my buddy Brendan aka “Samwise” to help. He got this nickname because he bears some physical resemblance to Sean Astin’s character Samewise Gamgee in the Lord of the Rings trilogy.
Really terrible picture of Samwise, but, appropriately captioned.
Like the hobbit he’s nicknamed for, Brendanses are disgusting creatureses. But, he’s what we had, so…. Thanks for the help Brendy! Like any move, the last thing in the truck was the worst to move. We were lucky that a few months ago, my aunt and uncle offered up a California king bed and bed frame. We’ve had it in NJ since we picked it up, and the move was finally our chance to use it. The box spring, which is actually two twin size box springs, went up without a problem, and the frame sat in the basement for painting. It was heartbreaking that we didn’t notice that the stairwell would barely fit a queen size mattress. We were on, literally, the last item to go into the house, and we were zeroed in. The trap was set. We went into the truck, grabbed the handles and hoisted what seemed to be a 400lb mattress. Into the house we labored, finally making it to the stairwell. I eyed up the chute, and to my horror the mattress was nearly a foot taller than the opening, and about half as wide. Had this been any other piece of furniture, any fraction less flexible than a mattress, we would have immediately quit and begun typing up a craigslist ad. However, stupidly undeterred, we bent, and flexed, and muscled the mattress to a point where it could actually wedge into the opening. At this point we were dripping sweat, cursing loudly with forearms burning, and we’d barely gotten the thing a 1/10th of the way up the stairs. Aided by some of the contractors that took pity in us, we fought the mattress for 15 minutes until we were finally clear of the opening and up the stairs. Though the mattress is now comfortably in its frame in the master bedroom, I can’t rightfully say that we beat it. It was, quite easily, the worst piece of furniture I’ve ever had to move. Though, they say nothing in life worth it comes easily, which is true in this case, as it’s the most comfortable bed I’ve ever slept in!
At this point, tired, dejected, and thoroughly over the move, I came back downstairs to the realization that we still had our entire lives boxed up, piled into what could best be described as a rats nest style of organization, with another week’s worth of renovation work ahead of us. I felt like crying. Anyway… I’m already at almost 1,100 words in what was supposed to be a short post, and I’m starting to have anxious flashbacks from that day. I’m going to call it quits and type up a copout post or two.
Such a cozy basement!
Find a seat in the living room?
Nowhere to sleep on the big comfy mattress from hell
Even Pepper has to suffer through a messy area
For some reason, a bit of this made everything seem OK…
And, for no apparent reason… Pepper wanted to say HI to everyone…